Sky is the limit!
Updated: Jul 1, 2020
Hello my beautiful humans! Hope you all are doing well. Not forgetting to smile and making someone else smile everyday! I mean every single day!
First of all, thank you so much for the support you guys are giving me.
Now let's start with where we left last week. Like I said, forgiving should never be an option. I mean it can be but by forgiving you'll never be disappointed right? You can ask me 'but what if they hurt you again? What's the point of forgiving?' and that's what this post is about.
You or the other person does not have to feel that you're any less than them just because you're taking the lead to forgive.. But after forgiving, make sure you're thorough with the lesson you learnt from the whole situation. These lessons can't be taught in any schools, colleges or universities.
The first time you forgive someone, give them the chance to change or realise what they did and prove to you if they have actually changed or if they took you for granted once again.. and if they decide to make the mistake again, the second time, then simply smile and walk away. Don't reciprocate what they did to you. At the same time, don't try changing them or giving them more chances. You will just loose your value if you were to do that. Not only that, you will yourself make a way for them to take you for granted and use you repeatedly.
I recently saw these two posts on Instagram by one of my favourite motivational speaker:
"Stop holding on to people just because you have history together"
"Stop adding people to your life with the same negative traits as the ones you worked so hard to remove"
When you read this on a typical day, it might sound really normal or even unnecessary.. but read this when you stand in such position. You will definitely feel something special.
Imagine this: You've forgiven someone whose hurt you and broke you entirely. You're not sitting alone crying to your poor pillow at night. You're not holding any grudges against anyone. Finally you're making your way up to where you wanted to be, without anyone being there to hold you back. Without anyone controlling you. Without any pressure on you. Don't you feel free? Don't you feel light? Isn't that amazing?
Isn't this what you wanted when you were battling with yourself at late nights, when tears were pouring out? Now that you've got it, work your way up.
Do anything and everything. Your limit is the sky. Go on. Touch that limit.
If you haven't got that, what are you waiting for? Conquer it. No - It's not going to be easy! But you will get through it! Believe in yourself!
Remember this - The world would say anything, to make you happy, to impress you or to hurt you. But at the end of the day it's your life right?
So go on, do what's best for you!
Prove to all those who laughed at you and took you for granted, that you were always worth everything. Achieve what you can and make yourself proud..
Because NO ONE CAN DO THAT BETTER THAN YOU.